The First Day of School: “Etch-A-Sketch” Your Year

The First Day of School: “Etch-A-Sketch” Your Year

Do you remember your first day of school? It has been nearly 40 years for me, but I still remember my mom walking me to school on my first day of kindergarten in Hobbs, New Mexico. I remember her holding my hand tightly as we crossed the street. I remember her telling me that it was going to be great and that I was going to learn so much. I remember walking across the schoolyard playground where I had spent many afternoons, but somehow it was different today. I remember opening the school door and smelling the remnants of the school breakfast coupled with the smell of cleaners. The hallway floors were brighter that morning than they would be for the next 9 months. I remember mom walking me to my classroom and helping me find my desk. I remember finding my cubby and putting my Peter Pan lunch box in it and finding out another boy in our class had the same Peter Pan lunch box. I just knew he and I would be great friends. I remember my colors. I had a whole box of unbroken, unused crayons. They were beautiful and they were mine. I remember my teacher talking to me for the first time. She spoke softly but firmly, and then she put her hand on my shoulder to let me know everything was going to be ok. I remember looking out the window at the playground when the bell rang. I remember seeing my mom walking away from the school and I remember she was crying… just like me. I remember my first day of school.

I couldn’t tell you what happened on the majority of days after that first day, but that first day is seared into my memory. The smells, the sights, the noises, and the anticipations are all still easily retrieved in my mind. To this day when I walk into an elementary school, there is always something that takes me back to that day. There is something so special about the first day of school for a new learner. It is scary and exhilarating and fun and hard and crowded and lonely all at once. It is the start of the single greatest intellectual growth journey anyone will ever take. These little ones walk into that building unaware of the world around them and they leave 12 years later ready to contribute to society. Amazing!

Teachers: do you remember your first day when you walked into your classroom and you were in charge?

Do you remember the anticipation as you parked your car, wondering if you were really ready to be in charge? Do you remember the second guesses as you walked to the school building? Do you remember bouncing emotionally between feeling prepared and wondering if you are really up for the challenge? Do you remember seeing your students come into your room for the first time and the empty feeling in the bottom of your stomach as you watch their faces and listened to the talk and saw their interactions… and you began to realize that you must be in control of all of these? Do you remember your first day as a teacher? Do you ever stop and think that those students who walked into your classroom on that first day will leave your classroom in 9 months one step closer to independence and being a contributor? Amazing!

There is something truly special about this time of the year.

Whether the student is a brand new to kindergarten or is a returning middle or high schooler, there is something special about the start of school. Summer break is a great time for rest and fun and work and lots of things other than a primary focus on school. But the best thing that summer break offers is an opportunity to start over this school year. The students who didn’t do as well as they should have last year have a new clean slate this year. Last year’s trouble makers may be known to the faculty, but when they walk in on that first day they are walking in with a clean slate. That shy little girl who couldn’t work up the nerve to speak in class last year is starting over this year. The knot in her stomach will be churning when she walks down the crowded hall for the first time, but she is walking the hall with a clean slate. None of the kids have a mess up or a social disaster or an academic failure sitting on their shoulders for this school year. The first day of school is one of life’s rare times when people get to start over.

Teachers, the first day of school may seem routine to you if you are a seasoned teacher, but it never gets routine to your students. Use the magical excitement of the first day to challenge your students to be better than before. Spend time on the first day helping your students truly understand that they get a start over today, something not offered very often in life. On the first day they can truly reframe the perception the teachers, their friends, and the other people in the school have of them. The shy girl should be encouraged to make her voice heard. The troublemaker should be explicitly told that he is starting over and that he controls what people think of him. The students who struggled last year should be reminded that this year is new and last year’s struggles stayed with last year.

The first day of school is almost like a mental “Etch-a-Sketchâ€: Summer break was the big shake… and the first day, students are starting with a clean screen to paint their personal picture upon. Teachers can be the influence of what that picture ends up being. The first day of school affords a true conversation with all of your students where you can honestly say that they will control your opinion of them, because you are just now getting the opportunity to truly know them. Tell them that you are rooting for them to make a great impression. Tell them that you are rooting for them to make friends. Tell them that you are rooting for them to show the other students how they have grown during their time apart.

Many teachers want to lay down the law the first day of school and set a tone of unrelenting discipline. While I firmly believe in classroom rules and discipline, this hard-edged approach takes that clean slate and shades it with tempered expectations. The hard-edged approach tells your students that you don’t trust that they will act the way they should act. It tells them that you are there as their disciplinarian as much as their teacher. Is that really the message you want them to hear?

The first day of school is special. A clean slate is an opportunity that can be fostered and nurtured. Tell your students your rules, but couple those rules with an excited anticipation of the days to come. Think about going to a movie: The best part of the movie is usually the previews before the actual movie begins. Nearly every preview elicits reactions that surpass those of the actual movie. That is because the previews offer a glimpse of things to come and that is exciting. It builds anticipation.

What if… you make the first day of school your preview?

What if… you couple the rules of the classroom with a synopsis of the wonders of learning that your students will come to know?

Some of you may be shaking your head thinking that what you are teaching is not exciting enough, but that can’t be true. If you are teaching it then it is necessary– and if it is necessary then it should be taught. Since it should be taught that means you were trained to teach it– which means somewhere along the way you had a passion for what you are teaching. Make the first day of school the day when you revive your passion for teaching and give your students a preview of the days and weeks and months to come. Let them see you loving the knowledge you are going to impart and let them see your passion.

The first day of school is the day of starting over for your students. Make it your “Etch-a-Sketch†day as well. Recapture that knot in your stomach of excited anticipation. Remind yourself why you became a teacher and then look at your students as your blank slates upon which you have the privilege of painting life’s lessons. Is there anything more exciting than the first day of school??

5 Simple Things for Educators

5 Simple Things for Educators

There aren’t many jobs that can match that of an educator for sheer workload. Whether an administrator, teacher, clinician, or support staff – being an educator means you are going to have an extremely hectic day, and tomorrow it will always start all over again. Educators do not have the luxury of completing a task and then stopping, resting and basking in the glory of a job well done. For an educator, when a task is complete you move directly on to the next one, because there is about to be a room full of students sitting and staring at you– waiting to hear and see what is next.

For most the start of school is right around the corner. For some, school has already started. Given that time is both precious and in short supply for an educator, let’s talk about 5 simple things that can make a classroom a better learning environment.

1. Time Invested Pays Off | Some educators like to lay down the law as soon as students walk in the door. Some are jumping and running immediately with a lesson or with rules or with a lecture. Think about the message this sends. It tells the students that the educator is not interested in them individually, and instead, they are just part of a “herd†mentality and it is their turn through the cattle-car.

Instead of jumping straight into teaching on the first day, allot time to get to know your students. Ask them to introduce themselves and purposefully ask each one a question about himself or his summer. Don’t just go around the room and have everyone stand and say their names; personalize the process with a question directed to each student. This is a quick and easy way to make eye contact, start a dialogue, and set the tenor for direct communication. Spending 15 minutes getting to know your students and talking with, not to, them is an investment for the near future when you will be lecturing and teaching and disciplining. People, students included, put in more effort when they feel they are a part of the process and that they are individually valued.

2. Put it in Writing | After meeting your students, take a little time to set the boundaries of classroom acceptability and behavior. Now is the time to give the rules and explain your demands for the class and the individual students. Most teachers do this, but take it a step further and have two different posters on the wall. The first should be your rules for the class and the second should be your expectations and demands. Here’s the key to both:

Rules: Determine your 5 most important rules and then put them in order of importance on your poster and remind your students of them each day when class begins. This is a subtle way of continuously placing emphasis on the rules of the classroom. Make sure your rules include specific rules about respect to you as the teacher and to each other as fellow students.

Expectations: As important as rules, expectations set the tone and tenor of the class. Again, determine your top 5 expectations and begin each class reading them aloud to the students. This sets a framework for everything else you will do in your class that day. You are the educator. You are the instructor. You are the teacher. Your expertise should be the guiding force for the students learning, so boldly place your expectations for the whole class to see and then remind them daily of those expectations.

3. Let them See Your Passion | Education is a passion. Teaching is a calling not just a job. Sometimes educators have taught for so long that the fire is almost diminished by the repetition of daily class life. This is something only you can fix, and the best way to stoke a fire is to place embers close to each other and continually fan them. This means, from the very first class, explain to your students why you care about the subject(s), why it is a life skill that matters– and, most importantly, why you chose a life dedicated to teaching these academic, life, social and emotional skills. Remind yourself why you became an educator, and let your students see your passion for your calling.

Some educators are hesitant to show their passion for fear of being perceived as “cheesy†or silly. Think of it like this: who would you rather work for? Would you rather work for an ambivalent, non-caring boss who is just going through the motions, or for a supervisor who loves what he does and cares about the outcome? Exciting people create excitement. Passionate people imbue passion. And caring people cause other people to care. Give your students a tremendous gift by showing them you have excitement, passion and caring for what you are teaching them. I promise you they will care much more if they know you care.

4. Own Your Classroom | It never ceases to amaze me that some teachers allow students to sit anywhere they want, and then proceed to get frustrated because Johnny keep talking to Joey and they just won’t stop. Your classroom is your domain – control it. Do not hesitate to place students in a certain order or seating arrangement, and if you find problems with that arrangement– change it. A huge part of the job of an educator is creating an environment where learning can occur. It is next to impossible to learn when you have students talking and playing and goofing off with each other. Own your classroom and never hesitate to use your classroom real estate to enforce your rules. Moving and separating students is not mean, and it is not picking on them. You have to use the tools you have to give all of your students the best opportunity possible to learn. Your seating arrangement is a huge tool; proximity is a huge issue for some students’ ability to maintain self control and attention.

5. End as You Began | At the end of your first class and every class thereafter, remind your students that they are there to learn. Remind them that you have expectations-– read those expectations to them again. Remind them of your seriousness, and tie it back to the passion you have for what they are learning. In other words, make them understand that their learning of your material does not end when they walk out of your classroom. Whether through homework or life applications, help them understand that what you are teaching matters for who they are and who they can become. End your class with the same excitement you teach with, and send your students out with a demand of excellence and a demand of applying your lessons within their academic and even personal lives.

A great movie is only as good as its ending. Same with a book or a song or a story. Why should your class be any different? If you have a tremendous lesson planned for 45 of your 55 minutes, and the last 10 are just spent in self-directed learning– you have lost the momentum of your lesson if the bell rings and everyone simply gets up and leaves. Before that bell rings, call your class’ attention back to your purpose, passion and expectations. End each class with the same enthusiasm and purpose with which you started and taught. Send your students into the hallways of the school with a very clear understanding of how important what you said, and what you demanded of them, truly is. Send them into the hallways of the school building knowing that you take what they have just learned very seriously… and therefore so should they.

It is time for school. Soon the classrooms will be full and kids will be learning and educators will be educating. The difference between a good educator and a great one is the attention to the small things and an ability to have a true purpose in everything you are imparting to your students. Leave nothing to chance and your students may just surprise you by giving you a great school year. People appreciate the prepared. People follow the committed. People obey when they understand. Mold your students into the people we all need them to be.

Welcome back!

Bright Light, Dark Heart: Robin Williams

Bright Light, Dark Heart: Robin Williams

It is hard to be shocked by news these days.

Between the 24/7 availability of news and the headline hunters that constantly chase, and sometimes even create, new stories it is hard to get to amped up when you see a “Breaking News†banner scroll across the screen. Yesterday was different. When news of Robin Williams death scrolled across the television I was not only shocked, I was numbed.

I am not a celebrity follower. I don’t care who is dating who or where they eat or what they are wearing or whether or not they actually know how to spell “tweet†much less how often they do it. But there aren’t many celebrities like Robin Williams. There aren’t many people who have reached across generations and genres and mediums like he did. I saw him in concert once and I have never been more mentally exhausted than leaving his show. He was truly an inspired artist. But that isn’t what made him special to me.

As a kid, I remember “Happy Days†and “Laverne and Shirley†and then “Mork and Mindyâ€. This truly was “Must See TVâ€. When Jonathan Winters joined the cast of “Mork and Mindy†it was like the whole world held their breath to see what these two could come up with next. The quickness of wit and the willingness to be the butt of every joke and the fodder for every laugh coupled with the lightning fast stream of conscious delivery was something to behold. But again, this wasn’t what made him special to me.

Watching movies like “Mrs. Doubtfire†and†Good Morning Vietnam†and “Aladdin†and “Good Will Hunting†proved a depth of ability that few of us could have imagined. Whether playing the role of a disturbed and lost man in “The Fisher King†or President Eisenhower in “The Butler†he could make us laugh, cry, cheer for, and even emote with his characters. He was as gifted on the screen as he was on the stage. But this isn’t what made him special to me.

My brother died two years ago after losing his fight with AIDS related illnesses. My brother had spent many years battling addictions and demons that seemed very foreign to me. I watched my brother self-destruct and, despite all of my training and education, there was little I could do. The lure of a lifestyle that seemed hopeless to me was unavoidable and unrelenting to him.

Several years ago I saw an interview with Robin Williams where he candidly spoke of his addictions and his demons. He candidly spoke of the dark desires within him and the never-ending fight for peace and solace that never came. This man that made me laugh to tears brought me to tears as he poured out his soul and took a huge chance by telling the world that he lived daily with an internal fight and that he wasn’t winning as often as he should. He told of the darkness of desire and the twisting of perspective that occurs when your brain and your soul are in conflict. He told of how substances were a crutch that allowed him to mask his demons, yet all the while he knew these substances were causing them to grow.

I remember watching this interview and getting a glimpse into the tormented mind of a comedic genius who thrived on laughter yet was exhausted by his own mind and abilities. Listening to him and seeing how raw his words were convicted me to reach out to my brother. His words helped me make a little more sense of darkness and temptation, failure and tempered success. His emotions and pain helped to personalize struggle and make it seem more real. His willingness to share his sorrows and own his demons made it easier for me to understand what a crippling force emotions and affective instability can be.

Depression is an overused word and has become somewhat clichéd, because when someone doesn’t feel good they call it depression. When someone isn’t happy, they say they are depressed. In actuality, depression is an illness that can debilitate. It can cast a pall over life and dim the brightest amongst us. We all understand physical pain because we have experienced it, but emotional and affective pain is foreign to most of us. How can you hurt so badly mentally that you would take your own life? How can your outlook be so dim that you cannot see or feel or believe in hope? How can depression snuff out one of the brightest stars?

Robin Williams was special to me because his words, those words heard by a sophomore in college in 1989, pricked my heart. His words caused me to rethink my black and white views of the world and question whether or not I understood the subtlety of life and the frailty of the human psyche. His words helped me reframe the way I thought about my brother and my willingness to try and understand what he was going through. He wasn’t my mentor nor someone I aspired to follow. He was someone who had a very bright light on a very big stage with a lot of success and untold recognitions, and he was willing to let the world see that he also hurt and that he often lost his fight with his inner demons. If it could happen to him, it was real for everyone else as well.

It truly saddened me yesterday when I saw that Robin Williams took his own life. I can honestly say that I was shocked and taken aback. It was a very harsh reminder of our temporal and frail nature. It was a reminder of how our battles here are never over until the finality of life comes. It was also a reminder of the need to be alert and cognizant of those around us who hurt more and those who seem to struggle more with the grind of life.

I have been blessed to have a tempered affect and a sense of emotional perspective that has kept me from living too high or too low. But many cannot say the same, and we have to be aware of them: where they are, whether or not they are winning their battles and how we can help. We need to be able to honestly and earnestly say, “Are you ok?â€

A star has fallen. How truly sad.

It’s Your Classroom: Own It.

It’s Your Classroom: Own It.

About half of our nation’s schools are back in session and the rest will be joining in the next week or so. It is time for that fresh start when every student has a clean slate and every teacher has hope for his or her class. It is the time of year when expectations are motivating actions and the reality of the coming year is still being forged. In other words, it is the perfect time of the year to jump on classroom behaviors.

Classroom behaviors are like a snowball. In the beginning they will likely start off as something small. There will be a student who talks when he shouldn’t. There will be a student who acts mad and defiant when told to do something. Soon there will be a student who argues with his teacher. Next, there will be students arguing with each other. Before you know it, the classroom has descended into a downhill roll and the snowball is gaining steam– getting larger each passing week.

Do you know when the best time to stop a snowball rolling downhill is? It is at the top of the hill. Now is the time to set the tone, expectation, and process for classroom behaviors. Let’s tackle these one at a time:

tone

The tone of the class is set from the opening of your door the first day of school. Is the room organized? Is the teacher prepared? Is there a plan for the dead-space in between entry and the opening bell? Are there rules that are easily identifiable and quickly discerned? Does the teacher gain quick control of the class from the opening bell, or has a student already marked his territory as the class clown? Is the teacher confident? These are all questions that swirl through the mind of the students even if they do not realize it. The classroom by definition is a socialized environment because there are multiple students present. Almost all classrooms have at least 20 kids in them. When you get this many students in one room, whether 1st graders or 11th graders, they are going to have a group mentality in the beginning. They are going to observe to see who is in control, and then there will be leaders from the group that emerge and will respectfully lead– and then there will be leaders that emerge that will test the boundaries. The socialized environment of the classroom will be quickly defined as either a controlled and regulated environment, a loosely controlled but pliable environment, or an environment that is easily manipulated. These types of discernments and decisions are typically made within the first week or so of classes. The tone of the classroom is completely dependent on the teacher, as the teacher’s confidence, presentation, organization, and system will all be scrutinized by the students; they will determine how much respect they are going to give this teacher and this classroom.

Set the tone early, teachers. This is your classroom. You are in charge. You are organized. You are prepared, and what you have to say is more important right now than what your students have to say – that is why you are the teacher. Set the tone early.

expectations

Similar to tone, expectations will become obvious very early on in the classroom process. A teacher that expects trouble or expects to struggle will have trouble and will struggle. The “self-fulfilling prophecy†is on steroids when you have 20 students there to witness the fall. Do yourself a huge favor: expect your classroom to be a learning environment. Expect your students to comply with your rules. Expect your students to complete their assignments. Expect your students to respect you. Expect your students to respect each other. Expect greatness from yourself as an educator and from your students as learners. If you expect these things and then set the tone early to accomplish these things, expectations can become reality. Along those same lines, do not have preconceived expectations that certain students will struggle or give you problems just because they did so last year. Give your students the benefit of starting over this year. Set the tone and expectations early with these students, but let them know that you expect great things from them. Let them know that this is your class and a new year, and you are going to guarantee them that they will be smarter and therefore better people for having been in your class. Expect all of your students to succeed. Remember that the “self-fulfilling prophecy†can be projected onto a student; when neither you nor the student expects them to succeed, it is pretty much guaranteed they won’t.

So how do you set the tone for the year, have and voice expectations, and create a learning environment that assures success? You do it purposefully. No teacher has ever backed into or lucked their way through a good school year. Success rewards the prepared. This means that you are not leaving anything to chance…

process

The process of the classroom is where a lot of our younger teachers struggle. It is also where we lose a lot of our younger teachers – as well as those teachers who burn out. If teaching were just about the academics and teaching the mastery of education, we would not have the turnover nationally that we do in the teaching profession. The dirty little secret of education is that teaching reading, writing, and arithmetic is the easy part of the job, but it is not the entire job. Getting 20 kids on the same page, getting them to sit down and be quiet, getting them to pay attention and listen and talk respectfully to you and each other is the bigger part of the job. Getting your students to be in class on time and turn their assignments in, line up when you tell them to line up and sit down when you tell them to sit down is a bigger part of the job. Having an environment that lets you teach is a bigger part of the job than actually teaching. Teaching cannot occur when the learning environment is not established. And the only way to establish a true learning environment is to do so purposefully through the planning and implementation of processes that allow you to define the learning environment of your classroom: the process for making those parameters clear to your students, the process of teaching compliance with those parameters, and then the consequence of non-compliance. In other words, it is everything that needs to be in place so that you can do what you do best – teach.

As an educator, do yourself a true favor and come to the quick conclusion that you are an adequate, if not outstanding, educator of academic skills. Now do yourself an even bigger favor and acknowledge that teaching just academic skills is not truly educating a child, much less a classroom full of students. The ability to teach students is completely predicated on your being able to create a learning environment where good teaching and true learning can occur. Therefore, this environment must be defined through tone, guarded by expectations, and operationalized through processes give that you the best opportunity to teach– and your students the best opportunity to learn. Finally, as an educator, do yourself one more favor. Come to the quick conclusion that it is necessary for you to proactively invest time in creating the learning environment.

It is necessary to teach your students how to act so that you can teach them how to learn. Teach your students your expectations and teach your students the social and emotional skills necessary to successfully learn in your classroom. You set the tone. You set the expectations. You enact the processes. When you do these things, both you and your students will be the winners! As you begin the new year, do yourself a favor and check out some of the classroom management webinars, lesson plans, assessing tools, and other resources that can truly assist you in setting the tone, creating and managing real expectations, and most importantly putting into action your steps to achieving a learning environment. These resources and many others can be found at www.selforschools.com.